To be a member of our club and have access to member only events and content on our website, you must first apply for a membership. Please provide accurate information and appropriate content as we thoroughly review all applications. Please give us 2-3 days to review applications. If you are not approved, you will not receive a welcome email. If we approve your application, we will send you a welcome email. We will build you a member account with the information you provide. Using your account credentials, you will have access to all DDD events and have full access to event content and more on the website. Rest assured that all information submitted is private and will only be viewed by our staff. Please check your spam folder for our welcome email if you do not see it in your inbox.
*Please note that we are not accepting applications from single men!
Please Read and Agree to Our Rules Before Submitting Application!
The privacy and safety of our members is our utmost priority. To attend our events, you agree to read and adhere to the following rules:
- As a BYOB club, we emphasize responsible drinking, as we will not be providing any alcohol. Please be mindful that membership could be revoked for irresponsible behavior while consuming alcohol.
- Consent is Mandatory: Always seek permission before touching anyone or joining a scene. We have a ZERO-tolerance policy for consent violations. If you violate someone’s consent or make them uncomfortable, you will be asked to leave, and your membership will be revoked.
- Only Ask Once: If someone declines your request, do not ask again and respect their space for the remainder of the event. Boundaries are to be honored; a “no” is definitive.
- Protection: Protection is provided in all play areas, and its use is expected unless all parties have explicitly discussed otherwise.
- Respect Privacy: Do not share details or stories about other members or anyone you encountered at events. You may share your personal experiences without identifying others.
- Photography: Photos are permitted during the arrival period before the opening talk, but only with the consent of all individuals in the photo. No crowd shots or images featuring people in the background.
- Prohibited Items: Illegal substances are strictly prohibited.
- No Monetary Transactions: Exchange of money for acts is not allowed.
- Member Responsibility: Members must exhibit self-awareness, independence, and responsibility to ensure their own safety and that of others within the community.
Violations of these rules will result in removal from the event and cancellation of membership without compensation.
We reserve the right to refuse or revoke membership for any individual registered in the National Sex Offender Registry or any person convicted of domestic violence or sexual assault.
You Must Be At Least 21 Years Old To Apply For A Membership
$250 one-time membership fee
$100/month per member