DDD Rules

The privacy and safety of our members is our utmost priority. To attend our events, you agree to read and adhere to the following rules:

  1. Consent is Mandatory: Always seek permission before touching anyone or joining a scene. We have a ZERO-tolerance policy for consent violations. If you violate someone’s consent or make them uncomfortable, you will be asked to leave, and your membership will be revoked.

  2. Only Ask Once: If someone declines your request, do not ask again and respect their space for the remainder of the event. Boundaries are to be honored; a “no” is definitive.

  3. Protection: Protection is provided in all play areas, and its use is expected unless all parties have explicitly discussed otherwise.

  4. Respect Privacy: Do not share details or stories about other members or anyone you encountered at events. You may share your personal experiences without identifying others.

  5. Photography: Photos are permitted during the arrival period before the opening talk, but only with the consent of all individuals in the photo. No crowd shots or images featuring people in the background.

  6. Prohibited Items: Illegal substances are strictly prohibited.

  7. No Monetary Transactions: Exchange of money for acts is not allowed.

  8. Member Responsibility: Members must exhibit self-awareness, independence, and responsibility to ensure their own safety and that of others within the community.

Violations of these rules will result in removal from the event and cancellation of membership without compensation.

We reserve the right to refuse or revoke membership for any individual registered in the National Sex Offender Registry or any person convicted of domestic violence or sexual assault.